A tale of a two

Do you believe that there is a counter part for us individually? lately i've been wondering, Is there someone-whether a friend, or that other soul mate- who completely understands you and the way you work. Not just 'have an idea' but on a different level. I used to think that there was one for you. But if it happens to be a soul mate, does that mean its the only soul mate for you? Can you possibly only have one? What of arranged marrages that turned into love? Is that 'in love' or a love with a duty? Its not like I have an arranged marrage or anything, but what happens when people love eachother, but arn't inlove? But out of duty -possibly even staying with that person for so long- its an odd realization, but if you marry someone out of duty, is it a form of arranged marrage? I would like to know, one day, what goes into love...obviously i dont think i've ever been in a real relationship. But ithink i have loved someone, but never in love. When ever or whatever is in this afterlife, i would like to ask what is the formula for one to fall 'in love'. Can you have more then one 'soul mate?' I dont think so. I think that God has a plan, and if we pick the wrong one he'll help us get on the right track. I think there are different stages in love, whether its love, in love, pationatly in love...ect. So if we do have a partner, there could be different stages in which we love them. Friends as well, you can have a deep connection, but never be in the same stage of life. Some of us will grow to love our friends, but one day they change and what is important to them is gone, or have altered. One day, I'll find a friend who I can have the same feelings about life with. Some one to laugh with, to cry with, to talk with, to love with...i believe they are one in the same...a tale of a two